A self-paced online program

What I'd teach you
if we had a year together.

Most people wait until things fall apart to learn boundaries, self-worth, and how to calm a body that's always braced for impact. This program hands you those tools now — drawn from 25 years of clinical work, delivered in plain language, at your pace.

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What's inside

The work, in three movements

Part One

Settle the body

Why your nervous system stays on high alert, and the daily practices that actually bring it down — no five-syllable jargon required.

Part Two

Find the line

Boundaries the Pia Mellody way — what they are, why yours got blurry, and scripts for holding them with people you love.

Part Three

Rebuild the worth

Self-esteem from the inside out — trading perfectionism and people-pleasing for something sturdier that nobody can take from you.

Short video lessons you can watch in a coffee break — recorded by Karen, not a script
Worksheets and practices pulled straight from the therapy room
Email support and encouragement along the way
Lifetime access — the tools stay yours

Who it's for

You'll feel at home here if…

You're the strong one everyone leans on — and you're tired
You know what a boundary is; you just can't seem to keep one
Therapy feels out of reach right now — money, time, or a waitlist
You've watched my TikToks and thought "okay, but what do I do?"

This program is educational and isn't a substitute for therapy. If you're in crisis, please call or text 988.

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The first round opens to the waitlist before anyone else — at the best price it will ever be. No obligation, just first dibs.

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